How To Make a Man Fall in Love With You

You found him. Something about this dude makes you want to take a deep breath. You want him to be all yours and nothing else’s. However, you must first make him fall in love with you.

I’m going to give you basic tips that will help you take him off the market for good, whether you’ve been dating for a long and want him to fully commit to you or you’ve never ever spoken to each other.

Make A Man Fall In Love With You

The first step is to pique his curiosity. Then you must persuade him to pursue you. It’s all about making him pleased once you’ve hooked him. Finally, you must become so indispensable to him that he cannot envision existence without you.

If you play your cards well, he’ll be completely smitten with you before you realize it.

This is the first step in the process. There isn’t a magic potion that will make him fall in love with you at first sight, unfortunately. You must begin at the beginning and work your way towards a passionate, long-lasting love.

Be confident

If you’re frightened to approach him, you’ll have to come up with a different technique to catch his attention.

You should try to project an aura of confidence, joy, and comfort whenever he’s around. If feasible, strike up a discussion with a friend who is close by. If you’re laughing and having a good time, he’ll soon wonder what’s so hilarious.

Smile

It’s straightforward but effective. You can signal him that you’re intrigued by flashing him a short smile.

If he’s already interested in you, this will inform him that he has permission.

If he hasn’t thought about you in that way before, it will prompt him to do so.

A quick glance and a grin is a terrific approach to get things started, whether this is a guy you’ve known for a long time, recently met, or merely admired from afar.

Flirt

Body language is the first stage in flirting. The way you communicate with your body has a lot of power.

When you’re nervous, your body will immediately transmit that sensation by the way it’s positioned, which will not help you.

To begin, allow yourself to be vulnerable. Uncross your arms, sit or stand tall, and with your head held high.

This communicates that you’re friendly and interested. Men will feel more at ease chatting to you if you are more open.

Maintain eye contact when speaking with him. This shows him that you’re paying attention to what he’s saying.

Simply be present and continue the conversation from there. For him to get the picture, you don’t have to flutter your eyelids or lick the whipped cream off his finger.

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Make Him Chase You

Assume you’ve just finished a date with a guy. He’s attractive, engaging, and makes you laugh. The first date went well, and you’re excited about a second.

He calls you the next day. He phones you six more times and leaves a slew of voicemails since you don’t answer. Did alarm bells start ringing in your head?

Men are in the same boat. If you’re too eager, he’ll get the impression that you don’t have much else on your plate.

It communicates the message that you’re highly accessible, which implies that you’re not in great demand, and hence not very “valued.”

Every interaction, whether you like it or not, creates an impression at this time, and being overly open makes you appear desperate.

“Any man who thinks like that is a superficial jerk,” you may think, yet he isn’t even aware of it. Our evolution has drawn people to high-value relationships for millions of years.

Natural selection may appear harsh, but it may be used to your advantage if you understand it.

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How To Play Hard To Get

It’s a cat and mouse game to make a man fall in love with you. You’re probably used to going out and getting what you want if you’re a goal-oriented person.

This is a good mindset to have in most situations, but when it comes to attracting a man, you need to be subtle and patient. Keep in mind that fools rush in, and you are not one of them.

There’s a reason why “playing hard to get” is a dating adage, but it’s more complicated than it appears.

It’s not like you’re going to depart at midnight and leaving him with only a glass slipper to locate. You still want to be accessible, but not excessively so. You want to be receptive to his approaches but yet leaving him wanting more.

Some easy actions will have him hunting you down without you even realizing it.

Allow him to be the catalyst to keep the chase going. That’s not to say you can’t take a hint that you’re interested, but if he’s the one making plans and contacting you, you’ll be providing him with the type of challenge that will hook him.

Don’t say yes too quickly when he comes knocking. Tell him you’re busy and will reschedule later rather than dropping everything to be with him.

He’ll notice that you have a full life and want to be a part of it this way.

He’ll have to compete for your time and attention, which increases the value of you as a prize. This alone provides him with something that the ladies he’s carelessly sleeping with don’t.

Don’t Rush Things

Yes, I’m referring to sex. Sex is a natural part of life, and whether you have it or not has no bearing on your personality, but if you want to develop something permanent, hold off for a time.

You don’t have to be a nun, but if you truly want to, don’t give up on the first date.

He won’t mind if he’s truly interested in something other than sex.

Waiting for sex is based on the premise that you want him to pursue you long enough to build deep feelings beyond physical attraction. You want him to treat you the same way he treated you while attempting to get into your trousers.

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Make Him Happy

Obviously, one of the most important things is to make each other happy. How can you love someone who does not bring you joy? If you can make a positive connection between your presence and his happiness, he’ll fall in love with you again and again.

Do The Little Things

Bringing him flowers and opening the door for him are probably not the best ways to win his heart because guys aren’t used to girls being romantic.

However, if you want to make him swoon, simply remembering what matters to him is sufficient.

Surprise him with a meal you know he’ll enjoy. Ask about his favorite film and then watch it with him. The key is that you’ve taken notice of whatever he’s said and taken action as a result of it.

Men, like women, want to be noticed and appreciated.

Say Yes

It is important to be agreeable. You don’t have to agree with everything he says, but don’t dismiss his ideas, make him feel stupid, or dispute just to quarrel. You can still tease him and have those fun, flirty fights with him, but only about non-serious topics.

This should, in theory, occur naturally. If he’s someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, you’ll probably agree on a lot of things. Even so, it’s not uncommon for opposites to attract.

His peculiar way of looking at the world is sometimes what drew you to him in the first place. Keep it in mind and strive to follow his lead whenever possible. You’ll be surprised where you wind up since he’ll appreciate your willingness to indulge him.

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Make Him Need You

It’s all about bringing value to his life by making him need you. The longer a relationship lasts, the more entangled you become in each other’s life. One of the foundations of love is one’s reliance on one another.

You’re going to have to rely on him as well. It makes him feel important when you ask him to drive you to the airport or open a jar for you, but don’t be a bother.

Make sure you’re putting more into the relationship than you’re taking out.

To begin with, thank him. Men adore it when their women appreciate them, so make it a point to not just praise him for all he does, but also to show him how you feel.

This could include paying for dinner, assisting him in selecting a birthday present for his mother, or caring for him while he is sick.

Demonstrate to him that you aren’t self-centered and actually care about his well-being. With any guy, this goes a long way.

If you can be the person he turns to for advice or a shoulder to cry on, he’ll keep you around.

You’ll notice him reaching out to you more and more, and the two of you will spend more time together. This is the most straightforward route to falling in love.

How Long Does It Take To Fall In Love?

It took roughly five minutes for Romeo and Juliet, but we all know how that finished out.

The boring, truthful response is that it varies. When it comes to love, there are no hard and fast rules, and this is no exception.

Try Amy North’s Devotion System if he isn’t taking you seriously or is unwilling to be exclusive. She spent years figuring out how to get a man to commit to you for the longer term.

But, as I already said, don’t rush things. If he declares he loves you on the first date, he’s either lying, doesn’t understand what love is, or doesn’t have a full deck of cards.

The kind of love that lasts takes time to develop.

Don’t be concerned if he says, “I love you.” While this is a crucial step, it isn’t the best way to determine whether or not what you have is genuine. What matters is whether or if the relationship is progressing.

Consider the following questions.

• Does he spend time with you?
• Has he hung out with your friends and family?
• Can you rely on him when you’re in a jam?
• Does he open up to you about his life, his hopes, and his dreams?
• Does he do all he can to make you happy?
• Do you have a future together?

These are the signs that someone is in love. If you can honestly answer yes to these questions, then you have his full attention!

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